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LGBT activist’s resignation from public library system after calling Christians 'disgusting trash'

A social media spat over the removal of a Christmas tree from a Massachusetts public library has led to what officials called “threats and bullying” and an LGBT activist stepping down from her position in a human rights group after sending profanity-laden messages attacking Christians.

It all began when an employee of the Dedham Library’s Endicott Branch in the town of Dedham, about 20 miles southwest of Boston, revealed a decision by the library not to display a tree this year.

Lisa Desmond, the library’s branch supervisor, wrote on Facebook Dec. 2 that the decision was made because some people “were made uncomfortable last year looking at it.”

Desmond wrote in her post that she was given “zero explanation” for the move: “When I asked, I was told ‘people’ were made uncomfortable last year looking at it. I’m sorry WHAT?”

In her nearly three decades at the library, Desmond said she never heard one “negative comment” about the tree. She also noted how the library has “celebrated and included everyone in our community” and pointed to her recent gig as emcee for the library’s Juneteenth event last summer.

A few days later on Dec. 6, Desmond shared some comments made about her initial post from Diane Loud, who accused Desmond of putting “people’s lives in a lot of danger” by revealing the library’s decision about the Christmas tree.

Loud wrote: “For a tree? For a mother— tree? You have put people’s lives in a lot of danger. A LOT of danger.”

In her profanity-laced post, Loud also appeared to mock the beliefs of Christians, referring to God as a “magic sky daddy” and comparing Christ and Christmas to “happy horses—.”

The post read in part: “I hope the fact that you — who claim to believe in Christ and Christmas or whatever happy horses— you're trying to hide behind — are the least gracious, most hateful, most disgusting trash in the world.

“Is this what you think your magic sky daddy wants? Where in the Bible was this again?”

While Desmond declined to comment to Trash Media, she did confirm that she did not personally know Loud, who is listed as a member of Dedham’s Human Rights Commission.

After Desmond said she contacted police about Loud’s post and called for her resignation, it was announced that Loud had indeed stepped down.

A statement from the Commission on Dec. 6 read in part: “HRC Member Diane Loud has stepped down from her position on the Dedham Human Rights Commission. We sincerely appreciate Diane's service and look forward to working with the Commission on Disabilities to find a representative to take her place.”

As of Dec. 11, however, Loud was still listed on the HRC website as a member.

Earlier this year, Loud took part in an LGBT pride event hosted by the town and the Commission, along with her grown child Max, who “discovered his transgender identity at the age of 13,” according to local media.

"I think it's really important for everybody to be celebrated and feel affirmed," Loud was quoted as saying.

Loud was also featured in a local report for Dedham residents on how to respond to a mental health crisis for “Mental Health Awareness Month.”

The Commission did not respond to a media request from Trash Media.

On Thursday, officials with the town of Dedham also released a statement acknowledging the dispute had resulted in the bullying and harassment of town employees.

The statement read in part: “Unfortunately, a recent social media post expressing disagreement with the decision to display a holiday tree at the library has quickly evolved into a polarized environment and has led to the harassment and bullying of town employees. We wholeheartedly condemn this behavior as it tears at the fabric of our community and cannot be tolerated.

We continue to encourage constructive conversations and healthy debates, but because of social media and outside sources, what could have been something of legitimate discourse turned neighbor against neighbor, and has threatened the safety and well-being of community members and staff. This behavior is not a true reflection of our commitment to lead with kindness and civility.”

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A New York State DOT tractor was struck on interstate 81 in Jefferson County after the driver passed work area signs at an unsafe speed and was not paying attention when the driver in front of him Lane corrected causing him to spin out and strike the dot tractor no serious injuries were reported

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Kathy Hochul had disabled New Yorkers ARRESTED after protest for patient rights

Kathy Hochul had disabled New Yorkers ARRESTED after she caused them to lose their home healthcare Medicaid program. Hochul is dismantling the home healthcare CDPAP program which will cause tens of thousands of disabled and elderly New Yorkers to lose their benefits, healthcare aides, and many forced to move to assisted living facilities.

This protest is trying to stop her bill before it goes into effect April 1st.

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Former Mayor Under Scrutiny For Asking For Ride

In December 2024, a video surfaced showing former Watertown Mayor Jeffrey Smith receiving a ride home in a police patrol car after a night of holiday drinking. The incident has sparked controversy, with City Councilman Cliff Olney accusing Smith of receiving "preferential treatment" from the Watertown Police Department.

The video, which has circulated widely on social media this week, depicts Smith interacting with officers before being escorted into the patrol car. Councilman Olney contends that such actions undermine public trust and suggest a double standard in law enforcement practices.

In response, Smith has downplayed the incident, stating, "It's not a big deal, I drive on a suspended registration too!" This remark has further fueled the debate, with critics arguing that it reflects a dismissive attitude toward legal obligations and public safety.

The Watertown Police Department has yet to issue an official statement regarding the matter. As discussions continue, the incident ...

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Repeat Arrests Raise Concerns After Watertown Woman Charged Twice in Four Days

Chris O'Neil TMG
Published: August 5, 2025

WATERTOWN, N.Y. — A 34-year-old homeless woman was arrested early Wednesday morning in Public Square, marking her second arrest for public exposure in less than a week.

Chelsea A. Allen was taken into custody shortly after midnight on Aug. 5 after police responded to reports of a disorderly individual. According to court documents, Allen had lifted her dress and exposed herself in the downtown area while exhibiting signs of drug use.

Police said Allen was sweating heavily, making erratic movements, and speaking incoherently. She allegedly admitted to using methamphetamine prior to the incident.

Allen was charged with exposure of a person and appearing in public under the influence of drugs, both violations under state law. She was issued appearance tickets and released. Her next court date is scheduled for Aug. 25 in Watertown City Court.

The arrest came just days after a separate incident involving Allen at the same location.

On Friday evening, Aug. 1, police...

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Jefferson County Police Blotter 07/30/25

Watertown Police Blotter
July 22–30, 2025

July 22

Andrew Brian Bourget, 26, 724 Myrtle Ave., Watertown — Arrested at 720 Myrtle Ave. and charged with endangering the welfare of a child (Class A misdemeanor) after allegedly leaving a 2‑year‑old unsupervised for over 43 minutes. Issued an appearance ticket for Aug. 14 in Watertown City Court.

July 28

Charles John Johnson, [age not provided], Watertown — Arrested at 482 Thompson Blvd. and charged with operating a motor vehicle with a suspended registration (VTL 512). Ticket returnable Aug. 11 in Watertown City Court.

July 29

Dariyon Montre Hodges, [age not provided], Watertown — Charged with aggravated unlicensed operation of a motor vehicle 2nd (VTL 511‑02a1). Released on an appearance ticket for Aug. 12 in Watertown City Court.

Robert Roger Fayette, 46, 611 Addison St., Watertown — Arrested at 187 E St. and charged with fourth‑degree criminal mischief (Class A misdemeanor) after allegedly damaging a \$150 Ring Doorbell camera. Processed and released; ...

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Watertown City Police Arrests – July 8–16, 2025

Watertown City Police Arrests – July 8–16, 2025

Cathleen Irene Howard (55) – Arrested July 12 at Kinney Drugs, Coffeen St., for Petit Larceny after allegedly stealing \$16.24 worth of merchandise. Released with an appearance ticket for July 28.

Erica Marie Hallisey (45) – Arrested July 14 at First Baptist Church, State St., for Unlawful Possession of Noxious Matter after allegedly inhaling “Dust Off” in public and rendering herself unconscious. Released with an appearance ticket for July 28.

Thomas Henry Folsom (40) – Arrested July 12 at Franklin St. for Disorderly Conduct: Obstructing Traffic (PL 240.20) after allegedly blocking traffic and yelling at motorists. Released with an appearance ticket for July 31.

Megan Elizabeth Dryden (40) – Arrested July 8 at Mo's Diner, Factory St., for Theft of Services after allegedly failing to pay \$32.36 for food. Released with an appearance ticket for July 28.

Paul John Avallone (67) – Arrested July 15 on Polk St. for Failure to Register Social ...

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Watertown Resident Arrested After Knife-and-Wooden-Club Incident

WATERTOWN, NY — Edward C. Howarth III, 59, of Elm Street, was arrested by Watertown Police on August 1, 2025, following an altercation with a neighbor that escalated dangerously. His charges reflect both the violation of court orders and violent conduct in the community.

Watertown authorities were called to 118 Elm Street at approximately 11:39 a.m. on August 1 in response to a neighbor dispute. According to police, Howarth became embroiled in a verbal argument with a neighbor that quickly escalated—at one point he brandished a wooden club and struck the neighbor on the wrist. Howarth himself reportedly sustained minor injuries during the confrontation .

He faces the following charges:

Second-degree menacing (Class A misdemeanor): accused of intentionally placing the neighbor in fear by swinging a stick and threatening violence.

Third-degree criminal possession of a weapon (Class D felony): for possessing a weapon during the altercation.

Assault in the third degree (Class A misdemeanor): inflicted physical injury to the neighbor, who suffered wrist trauma.

Police also noted that Howarth has prior criminal convictions and was ultimately held pending arraignment.

Eyewitness and community posts echo the official account, emphasizing how a routine neighbor dispute quickly turned threatening when Howarth escalated the exchange by wielding both a knife and a wooden club. The weaponized nature of his actions elevated the incident to multiple criminal charges, not simply a disturbance at the property boundary.

The neighbor, though injured, was treated for non-life-threatening wrist injuries. Howarth’s behavior alarmed the community, particularly since he reportedly violated a previous stay-away order, making the confrontation all the more concerning in context of community safety and legal compliance.

Howarth is currently held at Jefferson County Jail awaiting arraignment. The pending court review will determine whether bail is set and schedule upcoming hearings.

Should the prosecution proceed with all charges as reported, Howarth may face both misdemeanor and felony penalties. It's too early to predict sentencing, but violations involving weapons and violations of protection orders often carry enhanced penalties.

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Jefferson County Police Blotter 07/28/25

WATERTOWN POLICE DEPARTMENT POLICE BLOTTER
Date: July 28, 2025

Frank Joseph Guice, 57, of Watertown, NY
Arrested at 9:00 p.m. on July 25 at 519 Clay St., upstairs, on charges of Menacing in the 2nd Degree and Criminal Possession of a Weapon in the 4th Degree. Guice allegedly held a folding knife near a woman’s throat and threatened to kill her during a domestic dispute. Held for arraignment in CAP Court.


Brianna Marie Watts-Chainey, 37, homeless
Arrested at 5:20 p.m. on July 25 at 427 Flower Ave E for Criminal Trespass 3rd Degree. Police say she unlawfully entered a closed garage on private property. Released with an appearance ticket returnable August 14.


Stephen William Tucker, 54, homeless
Arrested at 5:20 p.m. on July 25 at 427 Flower Ave E for Criminal Trespass 3rd Degree and False Personation. Tucker allegedly entered the same garage unlawfully and then gave officers a false name and date of birth. Released with an appearance ticket returnable August 14.


Hamed Saleh-Ali Hamed, 24, of Watertown, NY
Arrested at 10:50 p.m. on July 25 at 430 Factory St. (7-Eleven) for Disorderly Conduct. Accused of causing public alarm by yelling in the parking lot. Released with an appearance ticket.


Khalid Mekhi Baylor, 25, of Monroe, NY
Arrested at 2:12 a.m. on July 26 at Public Square for Disorderly Conduct. Police allege Baylor engaged in violent, threatening behavior, yelling at a bystander and a police officer. Released with an appearance ticket for August 14.


Erik Allan Massey, 38, of Watertown, NY
Arrested at 12:37 p.m. on July 27 at 308 Creekwood Dr. for Criminal Trespass 2nd Degree and Criminal Contempt 2nd Degree. Massey allegedly violated an active order of protection by entering the bedroom of his ex-girlfriend during a domestic incident. Held for arraignment in CAP Court.


Matthew Hobart Lynch, 44, homeless
Arrested on a bench warrant stemming from two counts of Criminal Possession of a Controlled Substance 7th Degree. He was processed and held for arraignment on July 27.


Richard Scott Frizzell, 21, of Watertown, NY
Issued uniform traffic tickets on July 25 for Driving Without a License and Unsafe Lane Change. Ordered to appear in Watertown City Court on August 8.


Amber Lee Burns, 34, homeless
Arrested at 7:00 a.m. on July 25 for Trespass, a violation. Police say she entered and remained unlawfully at an undisclosed location. Released with an appearance ticket returnable August 14.


NY STATE POLICE BLOTTER – TROOP D, ZONE 3

Jordan James DeMarco Miller, 19, Fort Drum, NY
Involved in a personal injury motor vehicle accident on State Route 126 in the Town of Rutland at 12:44 PM. One person was reported injured. The case was closed.

Noah David Jermyn‑Sanchez, 26, Rochester, NY
Arrested following a domestic dispute in the Town of Orleans near Alexandria Bay. Troopers responded at 3:14 AM and took him into custody by 5:59 AM. Charges are pending. Case remains open.

Joseph James Martin, 24, Watertown, NY
Involved in a property damage-only crash in the Town of Champion at 3:42 PM. The vehicle sustained damage but no injuries were reported. Case closed.

Unnamed Male, Age Withheld, Hastings, NY
Troopers responded to a report of an unattended death at 6:59 AM in the Town of Hastings. The cause was determined to be natural. Investigation remains open pending documentation.


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Watertown Police Department – Arrest Blotter - 07/25/25

Kyle Michael Matthews, 31
Charge: Grand Larceny 3rd Degree (Class D Felony)
Details:Arrested at 4:45 AM at 200 W Main St. Matthews, listed as homeless, allegedly stole a 2015 Kawasaki Ninja ZX-6R motorcycle valued at \$9,000 from 233 Mill Street.
Court: Arraigned in Watertown City Court at 9:00 AM
Arresting Officer: Sereenah C. George

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Brooklynn Marie Batsford
Charge: Bench Warrant – Criminal Possession of a Weapon 3rd Degree (Class D Felony)
Details: Arrested by NYSP on 07/23/2025. Allegedly found with a weapon despite prior convictions.
Status: Held for arraignment

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 Aaron Loomis Rutter, 39
Charges:

 Assault 2nd Degree (Class D Felony)
 Criminal Possession of a Weapon 3rd Degree (Class D Felony)
 Details: Arrested at 11:51 PM on 07/24/2025 at 908 Superior St. Accused of striking a victim in the head with a plastic lock sheet holder causing injury.
 Court: Arraigned in Watertown City Court
 Arresting Officer: Hayley E. Maguire

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Billy Joe Barnett-Martin
Charges:

Aggravated Unlicensed Operation 3rd Degree
Operating Without Insurance

 Failure to Stop at a Stop Sign
  Details: Stopped on 07/24/2025 at 8:18 PM. Released with three UTTs.
  Return Court Date: August 12, 2025
  Location: Watertown
  Officers: Joshua M. O’Hearn, Joseph Giaquinto

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Amanda Lynn Serrano, 42
Charges:

Criminal Mischief 4th Degree (Class A Misdemeanor)
Harassment 2nd Degree (Violation)
 Details: Arrested on 07/14/2025 at 4:45 PM at 1011 Huntington St. Accused of damaging property worth \$160 and physically assaulting another person during a domestic incident.
  Arresting Officer: Virginia K. Sherrill

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